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Be humble, for there is always someone better

Be humble, for there is always someone better

Becoming Humble

I like to tell my karate kids on their awards ceremony, be proud inside, but be humble on the outside, for there is always someone better. When they lose in a karate game, I tell them it is always important to be a good loser for the same reason—there will always be someone better. Maybe not right now, but down the line an outstanding player will appear that will be better than you. You may be the gold medalist in the Olympics, but will you always be the best in the world? No, that is life.

A Lesson in Humility

As a recent recipient of the blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I started feeling pretty sure of myself when able to tap out the white belts. Then along comes a higher-ranked purple belt, substantially smaller than me, who can tap me out at will. I needed it to remind myself there is always someone better, and also to remind myself that there is lots of work ahead. This can be discouraging if you let it, but it also motivates you to train harder.

The Mark of a True Champion–Humility

The most important lesson of humility is empathy. You need to wear a loser’s shoes so you know what it feels like to lose. It will make you a better winner. The purple belt told me I had a strong defence, but just needed to make a few adjustments. I felt much better. And unselfishly, he showed me how to shut down some of his attacks for next time. Now there is a true champion and a master instructor.

What have you learned about being humble in your life?

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Karate kid shouting his kiai

A good loud karate kiai will make you stronger, protect you, and scare your opponent.

There is a science behind using your voice as a weapon, or kiaijutsu, as Japanese masters call it. It is the projection of ki, or internal energy, and manifests itself in the Kiai, or “martial arts shout”. With this energy you penetrate, like an arrow, your opponent’s spirit.

The Kiai Startles Your Opponent

There is great power in sound. It is your best weapon on the street, I always tell my students. As your attacker attempts to grab you, let out a blood-curdling scream in his face. It will startle even the most hardened of criminals, even if only for a second—long enough for you to strike or run. It puts the attacker on the defensive straight away.

The Kiai Makes You Strong

The shout helps with any heavy exertion. This is why you hear power lifters and tennis players do it. It also serves to “amp you up”, or get primed for combat.

The Kiai Protects You

The exhalation of air from the lungs, combined with tensing of the abdominal muscles when shouting, strengthens and protects the torso from strikes or kicks. It also prevents the habit of nervously holding the breath while engaging in combat.

A loud yell will also attract the attention of bystanders, who may be able to come to your assistance, if needed.

The Kiai Must be Practiced

Practice the Kiai in during training as often as possible. It should come from the gut or diaphragm, not the throat, much like breathing in yoga or playing a musical instrument. It is a skill worth mastering. Some say that masters of the art are actually able to freeze multiple opponents, push people backwards, or even knock people over with this skill. What is your experience with the karate kiai?

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A black belt helping their training partner to learn

A good training partner will help their opponent taste success by letting them perform their escapes

“The big white belt was completely exhausted by the end of the three minutes of rolling. I held him in mounted position for almost the whole time, stifling his every attempt at escape. Gee, won’t the black belts be impressed.”

“I tapped the dude out seven times in three minutes. Man, I’m awesome. Wait until I tell everyone”.

“The guy did not score a single point on me. Wow, am I getting good! I wonder who was watching. Where is the teacher when you need them?”

Unfortunately, there is one in every academy, dojo, kwoon, or training hall. A big ego has gotten in the way again. One result: many of their training partners will quit before they have had a chance to develop their skills, out of frustration and a feeling of failure. A crying shame, and not only that, they will tell everyone they know about the “cruddy school where they took martial arts”. Another result: no one will want to spar with “that guy” anymore, and he will not progress.

Saulo Ribeiro, one of the world’s top Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu experts, puts it best in his book, Jiu-Jitsu University; “I cannot have a top student take the Mount and expect a white or blue belt to escape. This is because the school’s blue, purple, and brown belts all know the same techniques. With everyone sharing the same knowledge, the upper belts can stifle the progression of new and white belts! How can a white belt progress? By feeling how a good student can put him in danger and then working the escape. That’s the only way for him to train escapes as a white belt. The upper belt benefits by fine-tuning his timing and sharpening his submissions.”

John Will, one of Australia’s top BJJ coaches, added this; “Great partners are those kinds of people that will work with us to help us solve problems – and we are great partners when we respond in kind. Problem solving is more often than not, a collaboration. Two minds working on a problem are far more likely to come up with a workable solution than is a solitary effort. A great training partner has us leaving the mat with a smile on our face and looking forward to geting back there as soon as possible – a bad training partner has exactly the opposite effect”.

The moral of the story: put your ego aside and let your training partner taste success, and everyone will benefit. Even you.

Please read my post for more on ego in the martial arts.

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How can being injured as a martial arts instructor be a positive thing? I found out recently when I broke my arm in three places in a karate tournament, requiring surgery and a plate in my arm to hold the bones together. Sometimes when life throws you a curve ball (or in this case a kick), you just need to go with the flow.

Using Your Mind More

I watched a lot of DVD’s, mostly about MMA, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, and bodyweight exercises, three of my current passions. Even though I was not able to do the vast majority of the moves, I visually went through them many times. In fact, when I was finally able to get back on the mat to roll, some of the techniques came back to me well enough to actually use. The energy that I would normally have put into training went into study.

Cross-training Your Brain and Body

Being a left-hander, I believe it’s actually an advantage to break your right hand. Why? You learn how to use the other hand better, and more importantly, it uses the other side of the brain, effectively cross-training it. I am still practising writing with my right hand months later. I studied Chinese Calligraphy a few years back and found writing with the left hand difficult because of the “smudging effect” as you move your fingers across the page left to right. When my writing is good enough with the right hand, I am going to go back and give it a crack as a right-hander.

Writing with the other hand

I had to teach myself how to write with my right hand, cross-training my brain.


Needless to say, writing, shaving, and other activities with the right hand has resulted in better coordination on that side. As a martial artist for over half of my life, I was already somewhat ambidextrous, but this certainly helped build strength and coordination on what used to be my weak side.

Your Injuries Get a Chance to Heal

The body has a wisdom of its own. Did it want to get hurt seriously? Probably not, but since the break, and the resulting enforced rest, something mysterious happened. My sore shoulders, cracked rib, sore knee and every other ailment I had completely disappeared. The relative inactivity gave my whole body a long enough rest to recover, which would have been unlikely if I kept training at the same intensity as before the injury.

You Find New Ways to Stay Fit

I had to find some way to stay fit as I had already booked a trip to Rio to train with Royler Gracie, one of the best in the world in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. The doc said it would probably be ok to go if my arm healed well enough in the ten or so weeks I had left before the camp was to start. As I did my rehab exercises, I developed a program to practise Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu with one arm to get myself fit for the mat.

Finding new and interesting ways to keep fit as an injured martial arts instructor

As an injured martial arts instructor, you find new and interesting ways to keep fit.


Other activities I tried were kettlebells, bodyweight exercises, and walking/running up and down stairs. Luckily the apartment in which I live has three floors of stairs. I worked my way up to twenty trips up and down, and towards the end I was running. This was a great exercise to discover as I now use it when I don’t have the time to get to the gym and need a quick workout.

Although I would not choose to go through this whole experience again, I found that by looking at the bright side of things, it was easier to stay motivated and keep on track in my training. What experiences can you share as an injured martial arts instructor or student?

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Those that know me are aware I broke my arm in a karate tournament a month ago. It could not have happened at a worse time. Two months ago I made my final payment for my January trip to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil to train with Royler Gracie, one of the top Brazilian Jiu-jitsu experts in the world. When the arm was fractured in three places and the doctor said it would require surgery, I just assumed the trip would be an impossibility. I had a plate inserted in my arm with seven pins holding the bones together.

Luckily, the accident also could not have happened at a better time. You see, I was in the best shape since my university days when it happened, thanks to training in BJJ, MMA, and teaching our kids karate classes. The doctor said he had every reason to believe that with the proper rehabilitation of my arm, I could still go to the camp. I was ecstatic. He said that due to my fitness I should heal quickly and be ready to go, even if I am unable to do everything at the camp.

My main goal in the next month is to keep myself grappling fit so that when the arm is ready, the rest of the body can cope when I get back on the mat. I Googled and You Tubed all variations of the theme “training with one arm” or “training with a broken arm in BJJ”, but nothing really came up. So I decided to build a program for myself or someone else who has had the misfortune of being able to use only one arm in their training. Here is what I came up with.

So far the exercises have kept me in pretty good shape, even though I am not ready to roll.
Below is a list of exercises in order of their appearance in the video.

BJJ Functional Drills

Bridging (static yoga pose)

Bridge (opposing arm touches ground)

Bridge to hip escape (above, plus hip escape at the end)

Stationary hip escapes (to side only)

Moving hip escapes (down the mat)

Reverse hip escapes (down the mat backwards)

Circle shrimps

Wrestler Sit-outs (one side only)

Technical lift (one side only)

Hip bump (one side only)

Two points movement (only two points)

Sitting thrusts (one leg curled hands in front, push off onto the knee)

Triangle Choke (up on shoulders and neck, triangle)

Same, but sit forward like wrestler’s takedown

Leg circles on back (hips off ground)
Bridge to knees (under and over)

BJJ Conditioning Drills

Crunches

Double crunches

Alternating toe touch (feet off the ground)

One-armed plank (two variations)

One-armed push-up

Crunches on sides

One-armed burpee

BJJ Stretches

Hip flexors

Sit on feet for low guard posture

Does anyone else have good exercises for a one-armed BJJ student who can’t wait to get back to full fitness on the mat?

Since I wrote this post, Dirty White Gi has given me many good ideas for exercises with one arm. Check them out at http://dirtywhitegi.com/2011/12/15/training-bjj-mma-with-one-arm/. An excellent BJJ blog as well.

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A kind martial arts instructor

Pick a school where the instructors are kind and truly enjoy teaching children martial arts.

Every martial arts term starts with a ritual. Some kids are chomping at the bit to get into the class and learn the reverse somersaulting flying ninja kick that they saw on TV. Others, you cannot bribe them with enough sweets to join the class. Why? Kids are as varied as colours of the rainbow. Some are outgoing, others are shy or are petrified of getting hurt. There is no “normal or abnormal” with respect to this.

How do you get your child to overcome their fears and engage in their first martial arts class? Here are some of the things that have been successful in our martial arts classes for children.

Let the child express what is causing the fear.

Sometimes just talking about it eases the child’s fear. Words often take some of the power out of negative thoughts.

Do not ridicule the fear as a way of forcing your child to overcome it.

Saying “Don’t be silly! Karate is super easy!” may get your child into the class, but it won’t make the fear go away.

Start with little steps.

Don’t push them into the class. Let them work their way into it slowly. While I am going around the class letting the kids use their blocks against the padded blockers (a very fun activity that gets the kids laughing), I stop in front of the shy child, smile, and lower the blocker slowly toward them so they can get it easily. I make it a point to praise them if they have a go at it, whether or not they do it correctly. This often works.

Make it an adventure you and your child can share.

Stand out there with them and do the warm-ups or other activities with them. They will feed off your enthusiasm and will feel less alone.

Allow yourself to be the “home base”.

Using you as “home base,” the child can venture out toward the martial arts class, and then return to you for safety before venturing out again. This allows the child a sense of control, but also reassures them that you are there for them.

Let the younger black belts talk them into it.

Often kids are intimidated by “the Sensei”, but if you send a younger assistant over to talk them into it, they can relate to someone closer to their age.

Be patient.

Some children take as long as four classes to engage. Once they get involved, they tend to be outstanding students, as they are usually very coachable.

Pick a school where the instructors are kind towards children.

The instructor must be interested in teaching children and sensitive to their needs. It is amazing how many schools out there are really not that interested in teaching children martial arts, they just do it as a “money spinner”. You can tell by observing a few classes how passionate the instructors are about teaching children.

What strategies have worked for you to help your child face the fear of joining in their first martial arts class?

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Abmar Barbosa has won his share of titles in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

Abmar Barbosa is one of the world's best at Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, and is also a fine teacher.

Abmar Barbosa is one of the best Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu competitors in the world. He is known for being a bit out there on the edge with his technique. I would say that is putting it lightly. His DVD is known as Jiu-Jitsu Outlaw, because he likes to shake it up and do things differently.  His seminar this Monday at Gracie Sydney started with one hell of a warm-up.

Upside down, between our standing opponents legs, literally doing the plow pose from yoga while rolling around and through the legs. I struggled big time, and it didn’t help that the other white belt I was partnered with (though with three blue stripes) seemed to know what he was doing. Not only did I struggle with the technical details of the move, but also the flexibility required seemed to be out of my range of motion. I thought to myself at the start of the seminar, “I am in for one long night, this is way too hard”. I underestimated Abmar’s teaching ability.

Breaking moves into the smallest details.

Abmar worked his way around the room, and although the techniques were now part of his instinct, took the time to break them down for us in the smallest possible detail until we were able to understand and perform them. On one particular technique he had me copy the motions in parallel with him without an opponent until I was able to master it. Then I tried the move against my partner. It worked like a charm. Brilliant!

Being aware when the students are struggling.

The mark of a good instructor is he or she is sensitive enough to know when students need more assistance. He had us re-group many times to go over a technique with which we were having difficulty. He then broke it down into even smaller detail until we could grasp it.

Knowing when to offer praise and encouragement.

I perservered with the moves. After what seemed like eternity, I nailed one of the sweeps, just as Abmar walked by. He smiled and said, “You got it, no problem”, and put out his hand to give me the low five, as I was in a prone position. My heart rose up, and I was immediately filled with confidence. The rest of the seminar was challenging to say the least, but with my new sense of purpose, I pushed on and learned a great deal of material. Sensing I was having great difficulty with the movements, he waited until I did one right to offer his encouragement. It would not have meant anything if he had praised me for doing a move half-heartedly.

Making the class challenging yet also drilling important skills without being boring.

Each move, although complex, was built on the one before it. In this case, we worked the moves from the same spider guard over and over again. Although I had very little experience with the spider guard before the seminar, the constant drilling of it gave me a great start on this very important part of BJJ.

Being passionate about the subject.

Abmar was so wrapped up in the class, he went well past the time slated for the seminar. You could tell Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is his life. As I performed each new technique the body somehow started to limber up and the movements started to become easier and more natural. I gained a new respect for the spider guard. As an instructor I came away with a great perspective on how to teach, from a great competitor, but also a fine teacher. Did I forget to mention, Abmar is only 27 years old?

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Never give up

Never give up

In a no gi Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu class a few weeks back a guy was monstering me all over the mat. He passed my guard like a hot knife through butter, got into side-control, and after a few seconds, mounted me. Was able to buck him off but soon ended up in his guillotine choke. Used a classic over-the-shoulder defence to shut it down, but before long he had me in back control, hooks in.

By then I was exhausted, as I struggled to fight off his attempts for a rear naked choke hold. But the battle was tiring him as well and fatigue invites us all to make mistakes. He made one—crossing his feet over my legs. Remembering the defence I learned years ago, I swung my right foot over his ankles and leaned back on him. Felt the tap instantly.

On more than one occasion I have been on the other side of this story. Just when I thought I was getting the better of someone on the mat, they turned the tide, and tapped me out. That is the nature of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

The moral of the story—never give up, even against a superior grappler. It ain’t over till it’s over. As long as you are fighting, you are still in the game.

“Never, never, never give up!”
~ Winston Churchill

“Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail.”
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the lock. ”
~ Unknown

“It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”
~ Albert Einstein

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Teaching martial arts injured

An experienced martial arts instructor can still teach, despite being injured.

As a white belt in BJJ, I am dominated on the mat, plain and simple. Although I am learning to use technique more and strength less, I lack the experience of the higher-ranked students. As a beginner, I am much more susceptible to injury. The body is having a hard time adapting, at 52 years of age. Since I started training in BJJ in June, I have had two very sore rotator cuffs, a dislocated little toe, a stiff neck, and severely bruised ribs. This has not kept me from training consistently, but has slowed me down.

Injuries Can Be a Blessing in Disguise

I have used the downtime to look at my BJJ books, play BJJ DVD’s and create lesson plans for our MMA classes. I have been able to workshop many BJJ and MMA techniques with our senior students, despite being injured. When I get back on the mat to roll, I will have a better understanding of the intricacies of the moves.

I have been able to continue my yoga classes and conditioning with our MMA students, so my mat fitness should remain okay, even without rolling. Every martial artist should have a backup plan for exercising in the event of injury. There is always something you can do to stay fit. Many athletes cross-train during the time it takes to recover from an injury. It is actually better for your body than doing the same exercises every day.

Injuries Do Not Stop You From Teaching

Injuries have not prevented me from teaching. You can be bruised and battered, and yes, even old, but your knowledge and the ability to impart it to your students can never be taken from you. I taught classes for a year and a half as I recovered from a knee reconstruction, with the help of my able-bodied assistants. This gave them much-needed experience running the classes, while I was able to give them a critique on their teaching method.

As a martial arts teacher, you are only expected to be able to teach your students the movements and help them to understand. You are not expected to be a physical specimen or jump over tall buildings in a single bound.

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Karate master

To become a karate master takes time--and especially, passion.

We all like shortcuts. Saves energy, saves time. Delayed gratification? Life is short. You need to get your 10,000 hours in. There is no shortcut for that. Or is there?

Let me share with you a simple secret to achieving mastery sooner rather than later. Choose your profession wisely. Make your passion your profession. Why?

By making your passion your profession, you will be spending at least 40 hours a week doing it. Do the math. Those 10,000 hours will take a lot less time than someone who does it as a hobby. A bonus—you are getting paid to become a master.

For example, I have been teaching martial arts professionally full-time since 1994. At five days a week it has been a much quicker learning curve than someone who dabbled in it, maybe training once or twice a week. For most of those years I trained outside of class in other martial arts or doing private training. I have never looked at this as work, to me it was great fun.

How do you discover your passion? For me it was simple. I went back to high school, even grade school and tried to remember when I was happiest. It sprung out at me without a great deal of thought—the athletics field. Physical education, recess, lunch hour, after-school sports. I spent every second chasing after balls or people, never sitting still for a minute. I still remember Mom reading the report cards from school, always a variation of the same theme, “Matt has a hard time being still and concentrating”. I still find it difficult to stand still. Why fight it? I now move for a living. A master? Maybe, but there is always something new to master.

A Shortcut on the Road to Mastery is an original post by Sensei Matt Klein.

 

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