Be humble, for there is always someone better

Be humble, for there is always someone better

Becoming Humble

I like to tell my karate kids on their awards ceremony, be proud inside, but be humble on the outside, for there is always someone better. When they lose in a karate game, I tell them it is always important to be a good loser for the same reason—there will always be someone better. Maybe not right now, but down the line an outstanding player will appear that will be better than you. You may be the gold medalist in the Olympics, but will you always be the best in the world? No, that is life.

A Lesson in Humility

As a recent recipient of the blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I started feeling pretty sure of myself when able to tap out the white belts. Then along comes a higher-ranked purple belt, substantially smaller than me, who can tap me out at will. I needed it to remind myself there is always someone better, and also to remind myself that there is lots of work ahead. This can be discouraging if you let it, but it also motivates you to train harder.

The Mark of a True Champion–Humility

The most important lesson of humility is empathy. You need to wear a loser’s shoes so you know what it feels like to lose. It will make you a better winner. The purple belt told me I had a strong defence, but just needed to make a few adjustments. I felt much better. And unselfishly, he showed me how to shut down some of his attacks for next time. Now there is a true champion and a master instructor.

What have you learned about being humble in your life?

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Karate kid shouting his kiai

A good loud karate kiai will make you stronger, protect you, and scare your opponent.

There is a science behind using your voice as a weapon, or kiaijutsu, as Japanese masters call it. It is the projection of ki, or internal energy, and manifests itself in the Kiai, or “martial arts shout”. With this energy you penetrate, like an arrow, your opponent’s spirit.

The Kiai Startles Your Opponent

There is great power in sound. It is your best weapon on the street, I always tell my students. As your attacker attempts to grab you, let out a blood-curdling scream in his face. It will startle even the most hardened of criminals, even if only for a second—long enough for you to strike or run. It puts the attacker on the defensive straight away.

The Kiai Makes You Strong

The shout helps with any heavy exertion. This is why you hear power lifters and tennis players do it. It also serves to “amp you up”, or get primed for combat.

The Kiai Protects You

The exhalation of air from the lungs, combined with tensing of the abdominal muscles when shouting, strengthens and protects the torso from strikes or kicks. It also prevents the habit of nervously holding the breath while engaging in combat.

A loud yell will also attract the attention of bystanders, who may be able to come to your assistance, if needed.

The Kiai Must be Practiced

Practice the Kiai in during training as often as possible. It should come from the gut or diaphragm, not the throat, much like breathing in yoga or playing a musical instrument. It is a skill worth mastering. Some say that masters of the art are actually able to freeze multiple opponents, push people backwards, or even knock people over with this skill. What is your experience with the karate kiai?

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